Is it possible to have an easy divorce?

| Dec 3, 2020 | Family Law |

It’s a myth that all divorces in Tennessee have to end with a year-long legal battle. If you and your former spouse are willing to work together, you can have an amicable divorce that doesn’t even need to go to court. It might seem impossible, but with the help of a mediator, you may be able to resolve your disputes and move on with your lives.

Is there such a thing as an “easy” divorce?

No divorce is ever going to be completely stress-free, but an amicable divorce is much cheaper, much easier and much less time-consuming. An amicable divorce involves leaving your feelings behind and working with your former spouse to come to an agreement on certain issues. It’s not about letting your spouse “win” or compromising on everything; it’s simply about talking about the issue like adults.

To help you with your divorce, you might want to hire a mediator. A mediator may work with you throughout the process to ensure that the discussions remain calm and civil. The mediator is a neutral third party who helps you remain open and honest with each other rather than resorting to underhanded tricks to get your way. With a mediator, you may be able to get your divorce settled without paying excessive legal fees.

An amicable divorce is also much better for your children. Instead of seeing their parents arguing, your children will see their parents working together. Divorce might not be easy, but it doesn’t have to be traumatizing for you or your children.

Can an attorney act as a mediator?

An attorney may act as a mediator who helps the divorce process remain amicable. However, if you and your former spouse can’t come to an agreement, an attorney might help you prepare for a court cause and argue for your rights in front of a judge.