Custody disputes bring out strong emotions in every parent. Those emotions can sometimes lead to decisions that feel protective but look damaging in a courtroom. Tennessee courts monitor how each parent treats the other’s time with the child. When a pattern of interference emerges, it can put your custody arrangement at serious risk.
What does Tennessee law require from both parents?
Tennessee custody law includes a crucial requirement. Courts look at whether each parent supports a close bond between the child and the other parent. This goes beyond simply allowing visits. The law expects parents to promote meaningful contact.
This means whether a parent encourages phone calls, shares important information and speaks positively about the other parent. Blocking communication or creating barriers may be in violation of this rule.
What is parental gatekeeping?
Parental gatekeeping happens when one parent controls or limits the other parent’s access to a child. Courts look for specific patterns when reviewing gatekeeping claims. Some examples include:
- Denying visitation without a court-approved reason
- Making baseless claims to limit parenting time
- Blocking the child’s contact with the other parent
- Coaching the child to fear or reject the other parent
- Withholding medical records or school information from the other parent
- Repeatedly scheduling activities that conflict with the other parent’s parenting time
Some of these behaviors stem from genuine concern for the child. However, concern alone does not justify blocking the other parent’s access. Tennessee courts require proof of real harm before limiting parenting time. Without clear evidence, a parent who restricts access can look uncooperative to the judge.
How can gatekeeping affect custody decisions?
Custody cases operate under one guiding principle: the best interest of the child. Gatekeeping sends a clear negative signal to the court. It shows that a parent is placing personal conflict above the child’s well-being.
If gatekeeping behaviors emerge, a judge may reduce parenting time or change the existing custody order. In some cases, the court may give primary custody to the other parent. Additionally, a gatekeeping parent may also face contempt charges, required parenting classes or court-ordered mediation.
Protecting your parenting rights
Custody decisions carry long-term consequences for both you and your child. Tennessee courts hold both parents to a high standard when it comes to co-parenting. A history of gatekeeping can follow a parent through every future court appearance. Understanding state custody requirements can help you support your relationship with your child.